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One thing the ex asked me was "Was there somebody else?" There wasn't, which disappointed him; I suspect he wanted something concrete to hang the end of the relationship on. There wasn't for two reasons - one, I couldn't do it to him, two, there was just no way logistically from a village that only had one bus an hour on weekdays and Saturdays; nothing at all on a Sunday. No way of sneaking out covertly to visit a scarlet gentleman, so to speak ;)
Going forward, I find myself asking all sorts of questions about what I want from a relationship. I certainly don't want to rush into something, unless my gut feeling tells me it is right. My gut feeling didn't last time. Should I go for a relationship where we live separately? We need to communicate better. I need to learn to communicate better. But Mr. Rafferty says it best...
Going forward, I find myself asking all sorts of questions about what I want from a relationship. I certainly don't want to rush into something, unless my gut feeling tells me it is right. My gut feeling didn't last time. Should I go for a relationship where we live separately? We need to communicate better. I need to learn to communicate better. But Mr. Rafferty says it best...
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