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Mr. Alexander [livejournal.com profile] perkk enquired...

What's you're coming out story? How did you find yourself to be who you are?

Hmmm... Well, it has been on record that I am somewhat of a late developer - I came out at the tender age of 33 in 1999.  I tried a couple of girls, but never got into the sex thing.  But I also noticed I appreciated hairy men.  Being as all the gay people I knew were what I would now call "twinks", the closet door was well and truly locked.  And I was beginning to smell suspiciously of naptha.  And I had a fetish for various bits of gear, which I thought just left me as being plain wierd.  One day, I discovered the internet.  And Bears.  And gearfetish.com.  Finally, one March morning in 1999, I'm not sure what happened, but it was like a switch flicking over.  And I accepted myself as gay.  And haven't looked back since.

Date: 2005-03-16 05:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rock-bear.livejournal.com
And you're getting a lot more sex now you are out of the 16th century
;-)

Date: 2005-03-16 06:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hantsbear.livejournal.com
17th. century, actually. Hmmm... 17th. century kinky sex... now there's one for Ishmael...!

Date: 2005-03-17 12:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emerldislefrank.livejournal.com
you may not have looked back but you sure look great!
Frank

Date: 2005-03-17 04:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] perkk.livejournal.com
Funny! Just "click" and onward ho! That's a fun story. Thank you.

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