Alone In A Crowded Room.
Nov. 9th, 2008 02:45 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hantsbearI went up to Manchester yesterday to go to Manbears' Prehibearnation. Checked into my hotel and made my way over to the sauna. Spent three hours wandering around trying to catch the eye of some men... not a grope, apart from bumping into an acquaintance from Leeds who was doing the rounds. Moved on to the Outpost for a quick drink with friends then back to the hotel to change. Then spent three hours wandering around Legends looking moody in a leather waistcoat (one I inherited from Russ). Met up with people I knew, such as Ady (former msfg on livejournal) and others but despite eyecontact and growling, not a sniff.
It is entirely plausable that my technique requires a little work, but I'm beginning to wonder if I am actually looking in the right places? I'm not sure that the man I am after spends a lot of time disco bunny-ing until 4 in the morning. In the UK, there don't seem to be things like "bear coffee" evenings, where you can actually talk to people instead of having to shout while some over amplified techno damages your hearing.
So, in the UK, where is "the right place to look"...?
It is entirely plausable that my technique requires a little work, but I'm beginning to wonder if I am actually looking in the right places? I'm not sure that the man I am after spends a lot of time disco bunny-ing until 4 in the morning. In the UK, there don't seem to be things like "bear coffee" evenings, where you can actually talk to people instead of having to shout while some over amplified techno damages your hearing.
So, in the UK, where is "the right place to look"...?
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