Nottingham Blues...
Jun. 2nd, 2008 07:24 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I suppose I have to accept that, for the time being, there are certain strictures on what I can and cannot achieve. I'd like to go to Manchester more but I haven't been there for nigh on a year. The Bear scene, such as it was, in Nottingham seems to be dying on its feet although I have been told that there is a meet-up on Friday night, which I may well head along to.
Problem is, that's all there seems to be. I'm not sure otherwise I know where the Bears hang out. There are some I have tried to contact through some of the Bear sites that are out there and all I get is either a wall of silence or an inability to commit to a meeting - both of which I interpret as rejection and unwillingness to even meet up with me.
I'm not a disco bunny who can stay up all hours. I find most clubs too loud to hear myself think - I'd rather sit around drinking coffee.
So, and I think I'm missing the bleedin' obvious here, what else can I do to get me a man???
Problem is, that's all there seems to be. I'm not sure otherwise I know where the Bears hang out. There are some I have tried to contact through some of the Bear sites that are out there and all I get is either a wall of silence or an inability to commit to a meeting - both of which I interpret as rejection and unwillingness to even meet up with me.
I'm not a disco bunny who can stay up all hours. I find most clubs too loud to hear myself think - I'd rather sit around drinking coffee.
So, and I think I'm missing the bleedin' obvious here, what else can I do to get me a man???
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Date: 2008-06-02 07:03 am (UTC)I really hope you find someone.
Maybe the glowing beard can help...
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Date: 2008-06-02 08:30 am (UTC)We don't even have a club or bar here abouts. Part of the trade offs living where we want to live, or where we find we need to live I guess.
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Date: 2008-06-02 01:18 pm (UTC)That keeps their attention for a while at least.
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Date: 2008-06-02 02:55 pm (UTC)Believe me...it's just as difficult for us straight men! You are not alone, my friend!