Nottingham Blues...

I suppose I have to accept that, for the time being, there are certain strictures on what I can and cannot achieve.  I'd like to go to Manchester more but I haven't been there for nigh on a year.  The Bear scene, such as it was, in Nottingham seems to be dying on its feet although I have been told that there is a meet-up on Friday night, which I may well head along to.

Problem is, that's all there seems to be.  I'm not sure otherwise I know where the Bears hang out.  There are some I have tried to contact through some of the Bear sites that are out there and all I get is either a wall of silence or an inability to commit to a meeting - both of which I interpret as rejection and unwillingness to even meet up with me.

I'm not a disco bunny who can stay up all hours.  I find most clubs too loud to hear myself think - I'd rather sit around drinking coffee.

So, and I think I'm missing the bleedin' obvious here, what else can I do to get me a man???