And Another Thing...

Another problem is the distinct lack of romance in my life.  Problem is, I don't know where to look.  Where do the bears who don't twink it out to manic hi-energi disco beats hang out?  I've tried The Broadway; no luck there.  The Lord Roberts is ok for Bear Night, but they still insist on playing such stereotypical sounds.  All of my romances have happened while I haven't been looking for love... is that the answer?