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One thing the ex asked me was "Was there somebody else?"  There wasn't, which disappointed him; I suspect he wanted something concrete to hang the end of the relationship on.  There wasn't for two reasons - one, I couldn't do it to him, two, there was just no way logistically from a village that only had one bus an hour on weekdays and Saturdays; nothing at all on a Sunday.  No way of sneaking out covertly to visit a scarlet gentleman, so to speak ;)

Going forward, I find myself asking all sorts of questions about what I want from a relationship.  I certainly don't want to rush into something, unless my gut feeling tells me it is right.  My gut feeling didn't last time.  Should I go for a relationship where we live separately?  We need to communicate better.  I need to learn to communicate better.  But Mr. Rafferty says it best...

Date: 2017-03-26 04:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mrdreamjeans.livejournal.com
I am far from a relationship expert .. single for 17 years. However, when I read your posts, it seemed to me your ex was highly critical and controlling. That must have been exhausting.

Date: 2017-03-27 04:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danthered.livejournal.com
»Huggs« from here. Here's hoping everything shakes out and figures out and resolves as well and easily as can be.

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